Happy Christmas!

Happy Christmas!

Iโ€™m a traditionalist. I put my Christmas decorations up on Christmas Eve whilst listening to 9 Lessons and Carols from Kingโ€™s College Cambridge. It always begins with a solo from Once in Royal Davidโ€™s City. I have a strong memory as a teenager being driven by my dad as we listened to the service on the car radio. British Christmases tend to be grey, bleak and dank โ€“  we donโ€™t do white Christmases as a rule but the sound of old religion on the radio brings something of light, peace and the majesty of Christmas. You know that Christmas has arrived and that there is no turning back, the whole world is caught up in its bright clear light in the darkness, in the voices of billions around the globe singing in praise of the Lord Jesus. I have set the commercial aspects to one side here, but do let Father Christmas through, I could do with another whisky!

The photograph shows the tiny Nativity that I put out this afternoon and which I shall take down on the twelfth night before the end of Christmas. The giving of presents has both spiritual and commercial elements โ€“ and yes, I do give presents but I could genuinely walk away from the whole shebang. Give me a good meal, the company of joyful friends, a gentle toast to the Christ Child and the sparkle of a light on a Christmas bauble and I am more than happy.

This year, I travelled to Assisi and discovered that it was St Francis back in the thirteenth century who first created the Nativity as a tableau that is now known around the world.

For those who are unfamiliar with Assisi, it is a hilltown in the centre of Italy where St Francis was born and died and where his mortal remains are held. I had been keen for decades to go there to walk in the footsteps of a man who wanted to bend us towards the simple life so that we might engage with the poorest amongst us. He was controversial, an extremist in many ways, a driven man whose life seems to have touched on insanity at certain points, but his call still echoes down the centuries.  Hundreds, even thousands come to the Basilica in Assisi, his final resting place โ€“ to stand in awe of a man who died 7 centuries ago but who is still revered today, that is Francis.

Personally, I was disappointed by Assisi. There are so many tourists like me and pilgrims too that it is just overcrowded, not only that but the crypt where Francis is buried has two massive churches built one on top of the other. No, itโ€™s not for me all that veneration, but I did get to see what is considered to be Francisโ€™s robe โ€“ very plain and rough, torn at the hems and stained at certain points. To me, it seems authentic, oh to touch the hem of his garment and have my cynical twenty first century soul healed!

In our world today, there is much uncertainty and we hear people in leadership roles either lying or simply not telling the whole story as if we are all a bunch of idiots or losers. St Francis was part of what we used to call an analogue world where people met one to one, where argument was based on reason and facts, and that those who led had an actual plan! Francis was a faithful, devout and principled man even if you don’t subscribe to the principles he espoused.

This Christmas let us be strong in defence of the weak and the vulnerable, be true to ourselves and search out the light of God within those around us and let us praise God. I wish you all a very peaceful and blessed Christmas.

This is a song from the 1980’s. San Damiano is the church very close to Assisi that Francis restored having received the message, ‘Rebuild my church!’

33 responses to “Happy Christmas!”

  1. mitchteemley Avatar

    Happy Christmas, Neville! And thanks for the engaging and thoughtful post.

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Much appreciated, I hope your Christmas was enjoyable!

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    Anonymous

    Happy Christmas! Great message.

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Thank you kindly for taking the time to comment

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  3. Tippy Gnu Avatar

    Interesting info about St. Francis. I didn’t know he was borderline crazy, but those with vision do tend to be a little mad.

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Well, I can’t say that he was crazy as there was no useful diagnosis in those days. I think I was reflecting on the fact that he went to extremes that many wouldn’t – removing his clothes for instance to attract the Pope’s attention.

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      1. Tippy Gnu Avatar

        Nothing crazy about that.

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  4. gustavo_horta Avatar

    Felicidade. Sempre. Receba as bรชnรงรฃos universais, abundantes, permanentes e prรก todos nรณs

    Felicidade. Sempre. Receba as bรชnรงรฃos universais, abundantes, permanentes e prรก todos nรณs

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  5. rothpoetry Avatar

    Very interesting memories! I love your music as well. Thank you for sharing!

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Thank you for your encouragement!

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      1. rothpoetry Avatar

        You are welcome!

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  6. Helen Devries Avatar
    Helen Devries

    Thank you. A welcome reminder of the essentials in life.

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    1. Neville Avatar

      I would also like to live by some of the principles too, but it’s not always easy!

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  7. Kymber @booomcha Avatar

    โ˜ƒ๏ธ๐ŸฆŒ๐ŸŽ„Merry Christmas!

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Thank you, I hope that your Christmas was indeed merry!

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      1. Kymber @booomcha Avatar

        It was, as I hope yours was as well.

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  8. luisa zambrotta Avatar

    Merry Christmas!๐ŸŽ„โœจ

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  9. Terry Avatar

    Thank you for sharing this information, Neville. Iโ€™d heard of St. Francis, of course, but have never delved deeper into research about him. Great post overall!

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Thanks. I think that the thing with Francis – Saint Francis – is that each generation can interpret his life to suit their biases – I am probably guilty of that. One way I can overcome this is to listen to other people’s perspectives and then see where my reflections lead me. In other words, there is no final resting place of understanding

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    Anonymous

    This feels like a quiet church made of warm memories and soft light. You hold your traditions like the ocean holds a boatโ€”not tight, but safeโ€”letting songs, candles, a sip of cheer, and Francis drift together toward peace. Gentle, steady, and glowing, this is Christmas not as a big show, but as a small, brave light, like a lantern on an island shore.

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Beautiful reflective words. Thank you!

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  11. Azza El Wakeel Avatar

    It was a pleasure reading your story!.
    Many thanks for sharing the details of your visit to Assisi and the photos, I’ve learned about San Francesco d’Assisi a few years ago from an Italien woman who was wearing his cross, known as the San Damiano cross.
    All the best wishes in occasion of Christmas and Happy New Year 2026. ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ‰

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Yes, I bought one of those crosses as a pilgrim icon . I find it fascinating that 7 centuries on – possibly 8 – his memory is still discussed. I send good greetings for the New Year to you too!

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  12. WanderingCanadians Avatar

    Hope you had a wonderful Christmas. My Christmas decorations were already up by mid-November! Sounds like a lovely Christmas eve tradition though to put up your decorations. Enjoy the rest of the holidays.

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    1. Neville Avatar

      I took mine down yesterday as it was 12th Night – from start to finish I had them taken down and packed up in an hour! There is always one decoration that gets forgotten, I have yet to find mine! All the best for a Happy 2026

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  13. mybeautfulthings Avatar

    Listening to the Nine Lessons and Carols is when I make a batch of mince pies for our neighbours to join us as the service ends. I’m not a believer but I do love the music. happy days to you. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Neville Avatar

      Yes, it’s a moment when you can feel that Christmas has arrived. It is beautiful

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  14. cat9984 Avatar

    Happy Christmas and best wishes for the new year. My grandparents (from Scotland) also did the decorating on Christmas Eve. When my dad was little, he thought it was magic.

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    ELON REEVES MUSK

    I have always noticed your comment on most of my platform I must say you have a pure heart towards me

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  16. merrildsmith Avatar

    I agree with the sentiment of enjoying family and friends and food rather than gifts. I was in Assisi many years ago with our daughter. It was a trip to Italy organized by the Latin teacher. I don’t remember seeing artifacts (and I’m not Christian), but I do remember walking up and down the hilly streets. I thought it was quite lovely, but probably typical of many towns in that area. I believe Francis came from a noble family and so gave up all that.

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    1. Chuckster Avatar
      Chuckster

      It is fascinating to me that Francis is the only saint that I know of who preached to birds and now gets heckled by pigeons.

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